Norm Carlberg
Looking at my calendar today
brought me a reminder that my friend and colleague, Norm Carlberg died unexpectedly
ten years ago today. As we all say, how
time has flown. Yet my memories of Norm
are clear and filled with admiration of a good, true, giving person who was
extraordinarily talented.
In July 2010 my blog entry was
about the three directors who made my “Life! Love! Song! A Visit with Gena Branscombe” show come
alive. Norm Carlberg, Evan Pappas and
Ellen Harvey gave of their talents to guide me through the development and
performance of this wonderful and fun one-woman show.
It was Norm Carlberg with whom
I first shared my idea of the show. Over
dinner, I sought his advice on how to go about writing and creating my
idea….how to make it a reality.
Listening intently as I recounted my Gena Branscombe journey up to that
day, Norm slowly spoke in his deep bass voice, “Just start writing” was his
advice….”write and write without editing your work.” Even with my doubts, I knew he was correct.
I invited Norm to be my
director and he accepted then offered to have the premiere performance at the
Liederkranz Club where he was Director of Music. There we rehearsed staging, music and
character ideas and constantly changed the script. Our show was coming alive!
Speaking at a memorial service
for Norm held at the Liederkranz Club, I said the following about our work
together:
“I soon learned that Norm’s way
of directing was to give you an outline of staging, a few key words for
character then he left you to use your imagination, emotions and
intelligence. Phone calls to Norm after
rehearsals were similar to the pain of pulling teeth. I would ask what suggestions/criticisms he
had and his response would be….”just keep going in the direction you are.” Or
maybe….”mumble to yourself a little more” or “don’t worry it’s fine.” We singers are more insecure than that and he
knew it. We need to be stroked, yet I
learned in his quiet way he was allowing me to grow as an artist …telling me to
be stronger and more self sufficient, and watching me grow as a singing
actress. After the performance he called
and said in his low voice, “It was really good!” Four simple words……discreet,
sincere and filled with pride of our partnership. A more kind and understanding colleague one
could not find and as a friend, a blessing to my life.”
Norm Carlberg, I miss you and
thank you for your belief in my dream of a one-woman show about Gena
Branscombe. You were a true teacher,
friend and colleague….a blessing to this singing actor’s life.